It's kind of awkward talking during sex sometimes, but it can lead to good stuff like this. Like finding out the table is probably a lot bigger than you think.
It's hard to come up with things and know I like them. If we tried stuff and I liked it I'd tell you, but I don't really know what's out there to start from you know? I just have fantasies but what if I actually don't like them?
You do make a good point. Fantasies are a good place to start, though. Because theoretically you'd like them, but if not we can cross it off the list so at least we know. You could just make a list, of things you definitely know you like, things you might like and would be interested in trying, and things that you definitely don't like, and we can just keep adding to it when we think of more.
It kind of is, in a way. It's the easiest way to ensure the consensual part of safe, sane, and consensual. I can definitely make one, though, it'll make it easy to compare that way.
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I guess now's a pretty good time to talk about what exactly we want on the table, then. If you have ideas, that is.
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It's hard to come up with things and know I like them. If we tried stuff and I liked it I'd tell you, but I don't really know what's out there to start from you know? I just have fantasies but what if I actually don't like them?
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You do make a good point. Fantasies are a good place to start, though. Because theoretically you'd like them, but if not we can cross it off the list so at least we know. You could just make a list, of things you definitely know you like, things you might like and would be interested in trying, and things that you definitely don't like, and we can just keep adding to it when we think of more.
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